passing away and putting happiness first

hunny's grandfather passed away and we went to the funeral and wake this weekend. i also found out that an old friend from HS's mom passed away from cancer. jon had another funeral to attend on sunday and monday as well - a friend from high school fell asleep at the wheel and crashed.

what's going on this weekend with all the funerals!?!

the extended family has had some disagreements regarding my grandmother's care. after going to the funerals and hearing about all the other passings, i say let grandma do whatever makes her happy - that should be the main concern. not who gets credit and who's doing the right thing. the main concern should be her happiness. she's 86 for heaven's sake!